Gotta have the best!! ...no, not really....
Let's do away with focusing every gearing discussion on the forums being based on running end game hard mode for a second and look at it a bit more holistically. The one thing the vast majority of players seem to forget to do is a needs analysis - a realistic one - based on what they run and what they will
realistically run in the foreseeable future. If your guild is an end game guild that has a very realistic expectation of running the hard mode version of the latest instance then you probably really
do need to focus on the best possible gearing combinations based on your budget and availability.
If you aren't in an end game guild and/or have very little expectation that you will be invited into a hard mode version of the latest instance, and this applies to the vast majority of players right now, then you absolutely
do not need the "best" or most ideal gear and statting to do what is realistically within your expectation of doing. So do yourself a favor and quit worrying over what is "best". Get the most satisficing/reasonably available combination of things available to you and start running inis with your guild for the fun of it.