First off, allow me to state that you two are having two somewhat different problems. The similarity is that there seems to be an issue with sending information to the site (e.g. sending in your character info to create an account, or sending in a request to have your password reset). This means you won't receive emails for just about anything on the runesofmagic site.
My cousin said he wanted to play RoM but he cant make an account. So I decided to help him. However, I made my account on the homepage when they had this weird toolbar that let you make Ur account in 4 steps. So I went to the form board and went to register, and when I clicked it I got API-request2 failed

. So I searched on Google to find another way of registering, and I found it, However whenever I make an accont, I get the email sent screen, and than when I check the email I get no mail from Inbox and spam. I waited 1 hour and got nothing

I got curious and decided to use my own already created user and pass. when i used it, it also got me to the sent email screen 0_o. So is the registering part of the site messed up? Any help is appreciated.
For you, I would like to redirect you to
this thread where I have posted a solution for this problem. The short version of the story is that since the runesofmagic site went down recently, there have been issues. However, the frogster support site is fine.
yeah, i'm having the same problem... my user name and password on the frogster support site wasn't letting me access my account, so I requested to have my password sent again (last night), and even though it said it sent an email, one never arrived...
As for you, I'm not entirely sure what the problem is. Are you trying to reset your password with
this form? That should work, as there aren't any problems with the frogster site.