I have played this game long enough to have a 14/11 W/S. So far I do not care much for the game. I really do not enjoy the cartoon graphics. I do not enjoy creatures that respawn 30 seconds after I kill them. My one-room house is a big disappointment. Most of the quests have been pretty lame but at least they do follow a coherent track. Crafting is a big disappointment. Control of the toon is sub-par. Emotes that I have tried are lackluster.
Does this game get any better further along? If so how? I really want to like this game and to continue playing it, but at this point, I am just going to let it simmer... unless someone can make me see it in a better way.
Well, 14/11 can be reached very fast in this game, so I would just suggest to give it more time and see if this game is working out for you. But it seems to me you expected more of this game then it is delivering to you and I am sorry to hear that.
As already stated by others, the graphics and engine do look very nice on higher settings, but if it is the colors and general flair of the game you do not like, I am afraid there is not much we can do about that. I too do not play certain games, simply because their candy colors do not appeal to me or the character customization is not in a style I like. Some games i still gave it a shot anyways and the progress and community of the game convinced me otherwise.
You also always have the option to make suggestions of improvement on our forums
The houses can be adjusted with house contracts, to look different then the original one you get, and quite a few of our players have done real miracles to their houses, making them look quite cozy and following a theme.
The quest-lines are story-driven and do follow a story-line in most cases, and we try to make them fun and full of variety. We can not reinvent the wheel though
Crafting is a big point of discussion in almost every MMO I ever played. We have a lot of suggestions for improving it in the long run. Still, crafting is not for everyone, and if the given crafting mechanics do not appeal to you it might be better to concentrate on other aspects of the game.
I am not sure what issues you have with the controls or our emotes. I find some of the emotes quite useful, although I too sometimes wish for more interactive ones
The respawn timers of creatures vary, some respawn very fast, some take longer to appear, making them rare. If you find yourself overrun in a zone by a mob group, it might be a good time to look for group members to assist you.
Bottom line is, give it a bit more time, find yourself some friends and a guild, participate in a community and see if it works out for you. Not every game is for everyone, there will always be things that could be "like they are in this famous MMO or that famous RPG" or different.
Time will tell if you like RoM and the coming development enough to stick around. The community alone sure is worth it!