Runes of Magic US / AU

So, it's possible to have 3 separate outfits and switch between them, using the toggle on the bottom right of the character screen (C), which numbers the outfits 1,2,3. As long as I had only 2 classes (and only 2 choices of outfit) the numbers remained stable - the outfit for my original class stayed at 1 (I believe) and the other stayed at 2. Now that I have 3 classes, and 3 outfits, it's NOT stable - At the moment my second class' outfit is at 1, 1st class at 2, and 3rd class at 3 - but there have been other arrangements. The one I remember had 1st class at 1, 2nd class at 3 and 3rd class at 2. I haven't been moving gear around.

Is there any way to get this to be stable, so I can remember which number goes with which function?

In the same vein, all I really need when switching classes is to change 2 or 3 items... mostly my primary weapon. Is there any way to conveniently automate a gear switch, so that e.g. becoming a rogue causes me to switch to my 2 current favorite daggers, and going back to warden switches me to my favorite 2-H weapon? There seem to be add-ons for just about everything, but I haven't seen one for this. Perhaps a macro? (However, I completely fail to understand RoM macros, so haven't touched them yet.)