1) how many questions in one numerical abbreviation is there in this `\_(o.O)_/`
but yes
Grinding is a good way to lvl in this game, there's plenty of world creatures especially lvl 1-15 to grind off of pretty easily. I say lvl 1-15 cause after that your gonna want the gear that comes with the quests or your gonna start struggling and questing is a good source of gold.
Instances -Tons, there's an instance pretty much for every 5-10 lvls
PVP - Fun, in my opinion. Standard click/tab target button spam style PVP, much like WoW
2) Getting good at PVP can go one of 2 ways, *Burn PVP* (which 99% of the ppl do, dealing nearly the opponent's entire HP in one shot) or *Strat PVP* (Stuns, Roots, DoTs, AOE's) depending on your class.
3) Yes, ppl do lower lvl stuff almost always, the most popular instances would be the mid lvl stuff such as DoD,RT,Grafu
4) I created a character on Grimdal before, from starting point all the way up to Aslan Valley, i hardly sall anyone. I pretended that i was surrounded by rogues being stalked the whole time.. but that was just my immagination. Yeah they're dead, plus their Auction House is filled with air from what i sall
5) Yes, Varanas.. Dalanis.. Silverfall.. the lvl 72 zones.. and varius other places of course, those are the mains
6) crafting sounded like a good idea to me back in the day, so i gradually lvl'd it, but i will warn you, some crafts like alchemy has a better pay-out rate than something like Tailoring. You sell more pots than you would any armor/cloth material. Crafting is definately something you do over time cause it gets expensive later on
7) in a way yes it feels expansive but there are barriers within the zones, their are high mountain like places you can definately climb and jump at your leisure if you feel like but the ones on the borders of the map are un-travelable. but in general, road maps are laid out, linear to a point but thats for a reason, the road is pretty much a safe zone for quick travel for underlvl toons. you can still get roflstomped by a monster on the road but unlikely if your mounted/constantly walking. And no there isnt any treasures such as that

creating a guild costs tons of gold, but not impossible, i would suggest you joining one/some first to get to know how it works. Generally ppl like to join guilds with knowledgeable leaders that have been around a while
I most likely wont re-post to any reply cause im not on forums much, but its my pleasure to say welcome to Runes of Magic, hope you like it, hope you have fun. I was currently looking for a replacement mmo game to RoM but after 4 months of searching i can not find one as good as RoM.