People complain that the servers are empty (which they most certainly are not), then tell potential new players all the "negatives" about the game. If you know what you're doing, you won't crash at all during the day, computer or internet does not matter (because I have horrible both). The game is most certainly alive, gear is cheaper than ever, however diamonds are high. Depending on what server you would pick (Artemis, Reni, Govinda, Grimdal, Indigo, Osha, Palenque) you could get a good thriving population (Artemis/Reni/Govinda) or a smaller population for the other servers, (no offense to players on the other servers). Ftwoplayer is correct in the fact that new instances are more burns than strat heavy, and that is a negative. There are classes that are "better" than others, i.e. Warden/Warriors and Rogue/Mages, HOWEVER, there are PLENTY of support classes, that are extremely helpful in runs, as well as others that are still good damage if geared properly.
Now to gearing. Getting stats and gearing can be difficult, but if you do it right the first time, you should have no problem, and with the new crafting gear/easy mode gear, and bag stats that are not that bad, you can gear an extremely decent toon for very cheap, besides plussing of course, but personally I seem to have great luck with that

. We would all love to have you join our servers and are always looking for new players, just ignore all the pessimistic players that give you all the negative fact (no offense ftwoplay). All games have them. And yes, this game is similar to WoW, but has its own distinctive traits, which makes it more difficult and challenging (which myself and many others enjoy because it keeps the game interesting) to play. I hope to see you online sometimes. (I personally think you should join the server 'Artemis'
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