We’ll have to agree to disagree on that one Zid (and others since I started my reply lol). While I’m happy to hear that some folks on Reni have regular access to pug groups that has not been my experience and I suspect it has not been the experience for others as well. Now, to address the rest of your response:
I understand where you are coming from, please don’t get me wrong here. There are currently way too many players who want to be run through everything and not contribute only complain. I also think there are way too many players with unrealistic expectations: i.e. not in an end game guild but refusing gear that is not OD endgame already +/statted. That said…
As mentioned many times before on the forums, there really isn’t much in the way of affordable, ready to wear gear to help newer and recently level capped players start running instances as contributing players. Even quest and crafted gear needs to be cleaned/plussed/statted/drilled and that get's expensive. In the past it was different. People regularly upgraded their gear and put their old gear up for sale so it was an achievable goal and I don’t think anyone thought it an unreasonable request to gear to the best of one’s ability before setting foot in an instance.
Unfortunately, this is no longer the case. Whatever gear that is available is often out of reach of many players or takes them an inordinate amount of time to acquire. I personally do not think taking 6 months to a year to even partially gear a toon is a reasonable amount of time at all. Heck, how many of us have pieces we’d like to use that have been sitting in our banks for months waiting on stats, + gem/puri sales, etc. so we can actually use it – and that’s just one piece of gear lol
But where the rock/hard place position really comes into play is when players have to decide whether to +/stat quest, crafted or other gear that they realize they will not be keeping for any significant amount of time. Right now, that’s asking them to incur a pretty significant investment of time, money and faith in a game that is obviously in a holding pattern.
In the end I just think we need to find a happy medium somewhere that doesn’t require players to break the bank to get gear so they can run anything past HoS or constantly change guilds to find someone willing/able to help them gear up. Sorry for the long post, that’s just how I roll sometimes