I use to play rom on minimum graphics on a $200 8 year old laptop. Now that I built a gaming desktop PC for upwards of $2000 in total costs, rom runs in more fps yes, but it crashes more then it ever did before, even if I try playing it on a crappy laptop again :p But for the most part RoM is stable with the right setup, and the graphics are truly much better then everyone gives them credit to be when played on max.
Hopefully the merge of server will bring us a more stable mega server with all funds to running it being pumped into just the one server

*fingers crossed*