Well it looks like i won't be playing for a while till they get the client download fixed. I've tried everything that i was told to do and nothing is working so I guess I'll just have to wait and play WoW till then.
No I've never rly cared on any game trying to be the best. If I can have fun still while still doing good dps or healing or whatever I'm fine. Thanks for the input guys. I'll will start this game when everything gets fixed. So I hope it isn't long lol.
If you don't have a "I need to be the best!" mentality then you will be fine. I don't really have that mentality either...I just play and if I'm satisfied with where my character is and if I can play the content, then I'm good to go. I've been mostly f2p in RoM for over 2 years... spent some $$ here or there kind of like a donation to say thanks... But overall, I've done all my gearing and statting and enhancing and leveling all via f2p methods.
But, as BJHawk mentioned, it is all about time invested. Simply putting in 1-2 hours each day won't really get you anywhere... When I was playing RoM hardcore as my main MMO I put in like 8-10 hours each day...or more on weekends. It definitely is do-able. You don't need the "best" gear in order to play all the content (unless you're looking to do bleeding edge, just-released-2-hours-ago endgame content). Best tip is to take advantage of all your gearing options; do your dailys every day, do your mini games, do public events, run some instances. I think you'll be fine.