@Purre
Yes, you very very rarely, maybe never, see an endgamer shout that they're selling dias. That doesn't mean they aren't though. If you look, you may see people offering to trade dias for stats, for mementos and for OD mem pull gear. One of my tanks statted himself and his OD mem accessory set with dias, and he did this because while he could theoretically farm all of it himself, he simply did not have time. Also, we sell dias to each other a lot. Remember that a lot of progression teams are mixed pay to play, free to play, and you'll see that we have a market of 12 people right at hand. You think anyone could buy enough dias to need to sell any outside of that voracious 12 man circle? Not possible.
Also, and this is key- I started selling dias when I was a lowbee. I can't afford to now. I need every single dia I buy for my own gear, and I try and help out my guildies when they need little stuff, and I do trade a few for stats also. You won't ever catch me selling a dia. I buy as many as my sad small gold balance will allow, and it's never enough.
@ the thread in general
Everything that can be said, has been said, I think. Some people will always hate those who do better, no matter how silly that is. For those of you with more open minds, like Purre, badass endgamers are an inspiration, and will push you to better yourself and others along the way. You can do it Purre, and I think you will. People like Brogue and Raves are an inspiration to me, because I am far from badassery myself, and I strive to be more like my own idols.
When we stop hating the people who one hit us in siege, and start screenshotting their gear, and then use that as an impetus to push us farther and better, and pm and constantly bug the ones we really hated the most (*cough* Pazzuzu *cough*), we stop seeing them as the faceless enemy and get to know them as dear friends and allies. The truth is, most of those supposedly evil endgamers are actually rooting for all of you- we want to see you learn and grow and get better than we are!
This is offtopic a tiny bit, but let me tell you a tiny story. Really, a teeny weeny one. No dramamine required.
Noto started out very small, and we sieged in the 500-1500 bracket for a long time. This is the bracket most of you guys are in, and we were there a long time. We saw guilds that called us hackers all the time, and we called a lot of people hackers. We were noobies, and didn't know other people's skills, and we didn't know a hack from a bug. Everyone seemed more OP than we were, and it was so hard.
When we started to grow up a little, as players and as a guild, and we moved from the 1500 bracket to the 3000 bracket, it was a whole different world. We had learned the difference between a hack and a bug, and while we did of course actually see some real hacks at times, it was really rare. When we started inhabiting the 3k bracket for real, something really interesting happened. People from the opposition started getting on to Palenque just to whisper me about our sieges.
No, really. This happened again and again and again- people from a bunch of different guilds. Not to rant at me, not to accuse us of cheating- these people just wanted to say hi. To say "Great game, we love you guys, siege is so much fun!" and to talk about gear and skills and instance progression and stuff. To chat.
I couldn't believe it at first. Really, aren't we supposed to hate each other and be suspicious and all that? But, these people weren't like that at all. I mean, I play a p/s in siege, and people are supposed to hate our guts! Instead, they wanted to say how much fun it was being 2 or 3 hit by me, and how much they enjoyed being zerged by my 50 player strong Mongol horde o.O
This still happens to me, and I've started doing it myself. I can't tell you the difference this has made to how much my guild enjoys siege. We're at 7k points at the moment, and the process continues. There's a level of affection and respect between these top guilds that I never in my wildest dreams expected.
Why is this so at the top and not at the bottom? I think it's because these people are experienced, and most of those guilds have a high population of the so-hated endgamers. Call it honor among thieves if you must, but these people are good, kind and respectful, and they have always treated Noto with kindness and respect. If you take the glittery aggs off of your average endgamer, strip them down to essentials- underneath there is a real human being. These people are not universally good obviously, but in my experience a hell of a lot of them are. They are good at what they do, and they have worked very hard to get where they are. And if you give them half a chance, you might be surprised at just how humble and sweet they really are.
A few people have been complaining rather vociferously about how selfish, elitist and evil the endgame community is here in RoM. I beg to differ. If you give people a chance, instead of judging the book by the scary Locface cover, you too may come to love an endgamer or two. Under that steaming Locface mask is a single dad or a pimply teenager or a middle-aged housewife who's just as insecure and cuddly as you are.