I would say it isn't as much about siege as it is about another expansion, at least for me. Every time a new zone is added I have more trouble staying connected, no matter what character or zone I am in. I have made a second copy of the game folder on my PC, and turned down the video on the second one as far as I can get it. I use this for my "also- ran" characters, whether for siege, dailies or bag-drop parties. It only helps a little for the low-video characters. In a mediun-high resolution, the lowest I can tolerate for any length of time mentally, I still get lots of crashing. I don't know why this gets worse with every expansion. I don't think the client is running the entirety of Taborea at one time, but sometimes it feels that way.
I have noticed that when in siege I still get the notices in my chat about the public event starting and stopping in whatever zone I entered from. If the siege "instance" is not separating us entirely from the zone we are in when we enter, I can see how that might be part of the problem. Try launching siege from a really quiet location, like the little spot of land on the far side of the lake from the Distillery (don't everyone go there at once now!!!)
Grumpdaddy-100/100/75 r/w/s Erebos
Grumpmama 100/100 m/r
Littlegrump 100/100/50 k/p/m
Grumptwo 100/100 r/k
Sneezzy 100/100 m/wl
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