D/S/W here

I have (pretty much) all clean t6 OD (for the most part) endgame statted gear. I can hit 200k hp blahblahblah pdef this and that stam wis healing 230498029381 on myself. In the end, I can survive at most 5 seconds usually against anyone remotely close to even with me in gear, INCLUDING MANY TANKS. 5 seconds because I have a buff that SOMETIMES works that lasts 5 seconds, -99% damage. I swear to god that buff is broken in siege anyways. I mouth off in vent during siege about gimp p/s that hit me for WAY less than the rest of my guild in siege, like WOW he hit you for 100k? he barely crit me for 40 yadayadayada. The point is, damage is completely, and UTTERLY broken in pvp, both on pvp servers when flagged up, and during siege with pve. Once you pass about 1k points in siege, its a fair GUARANTEE that if you aren't a DISGUSTING MONSTER OF A P/K or TANK with like 300k+ pdef all the time, or a well-skilled dps, you will be VERY restricted in pvp of any form. This essentially makes a lot of fighting really sucky and pointless for the MAJORITY of players.
Now, the more skilled of us will argue that there are ways to deal with these types of things. Candies, buffs of all kinds, just being blatantly skilled, patient, etc. To them I say grats, and what about the rest of us? If I go fully buffed up against a decent rogue geared a THIRD as well as me, chances are I'll probably die. If I dont, they are probably a "noob." I was REALLY looking forward to the damage reduction in siege, and idk if they are still planning on implementing it or not, but I do think that it is completely unfair that if I were to transfer my gear to a p/k I'd be practically invincible for the most part with respect to the level of intensity we usually face in siege war.
I dont like riding out and dying so quickly. But I'm used to it and there are a lot of great battles. I think ANY healer will agree that some of the most frustrating but fun, heart-quickening battles theyve had were against other healers or tanks where you can actually utilize real skill as a player, and not who can get off the first 1 shot. I almost NEVER get 1 shot in siege. I cant remember the last time it was. But when I can get silenced for 5-10 seconds, knocked down multiple times.... why do I even heal at all? Might as well come in raging with my lvl 50 dps skills and 10k matk. That would be more productive. I sincerely and truly hope something is done about this, because it would make the game much more fun for many players, especially on pvp servers where there isnt much to do BUT siege.