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Monday, August 17th 2009, 7:48pm

Addiction & the cure to "MMORPG"

Hi! please take just a few seconds to read these articles. If you don't have time, you can SIMPLY IGNORE IT RIGHT NOW ^.^

REGARDLESS of age, sex and race, this applies to ALMOST everyone ^(O.O)^(O.-)^(-.O)^(O.O)^

It's not a new topic at all but it will never be too old to talk about.

http://news.filefront.com/ex-blizzard-em…sband-over-wow/ (ex=blizzard employee divorces husband over WOW)

In South Korea, people have died because of "gaming marathons". A young South Korean man died because of exhaustion after 54 hours "happy gaming".

In Russia, an innocent man got killed because of conflict between two gamers of opposing guilds. But no "phat lewts" have been found; and unlucky for the ones who killed him, they ain't got no "resurrection" or "reincarnation" abilities to save the victim & themselves from going to prison! (Maybe that will help them stay clear from MMORPGs)

In the USA, a son shot his mother in the head for taking away his Halo CD. Now we might think that this is an extreme addicted case in which an immature teenager failed to control himself. Well, in "less extreme" situations, credible researches have shown that 40% of WoW players are completely devoted to playing the game almost 24 hours a day.

Surveys all led to conclusions that the majority of players aged from 10~40 admitted that they really stopped "leveling" in real life. The other said many aspects of their lives got slowed down. ONLY a minority was able to control themselves. It was revealed that this minority never really played the game in the first place as most of them complained about other things such as small in-game chat-box which means they only care about chatting with their friends or kill a few minutes out of boredom.

Having said that, we would like to show you a small guide on how to (read below; it's obvious ^)

http://www.wikihow.com/Overcome-an-MMORPG-Addiction

Basically, it's all about

> NOT just understanding the limits - NOT only just become aware of problems: ACT NOW & ACT QUICK! If we are the ones who got addicted to MMORPG, particularly Runes of Magic Online, it is never too late to delete the toon, uninstall the game and go out to get some fresh air! There are many good advice floating on the internet at the point of our fingers. Google those instead of another hot MMORPG list.

> I hope this article won't be deleted. It is totally up to the gamer to decide whether to play or not. The company's user agreement says that it is not responsible for any damage to players. We are NOT saying that RoM management is responsible. We are just trying to convey a simple idea that might help some seriously addicted RoM players.

> For the rest who are NOT ADDICTED: "OK this is NO big deal. Just chill out man. Dis just a dam game ;)" > well, TAKE A LOOK AGAIN AT OURSELVES. When we are at level 30 - 35 - 40 - 45 - 50+, playing many hours everyday with that "adorable" excuse named SUMMER VACATION or the likes, feeling discomforted or even angry at surrounding people (most importantly - family), neglect daily duties of a son/daughter/husband/wife, earn less money with vision blurred thanks to extreme eye fatigue, physical deterioration like we never worked out, talk to other people like geeks/robots (even thou we know NOTHING about statistics, programming, business ethics, advanced biology, algebra..e.t.c.. ) and BEST of all: deprive ourselves of chances to GET LAID - hang out with pretty girls & boys...we will understand how this MMORPG thing is "killing me softly with its updates".

> Of course, these things vary from person to person. We all EXTREMELY HATE to hear total strangers making wild assumptions about others.

> On the other hand, Runes of Magic is another conventional well-programmed game among many others. Congratulation for making this nice game & I did enjoy playing for several months in a row since it was first released.
As for now, BON VOYAGE all ONLINE GAMES in the whole wide world!!! ^.~"

Thanks to my family, colleagues and my other inner good side, I am NOW FREE again!!!

PS: Please feel free to share your ideas - suggestions & correct me if I'm wrong. Let's build up this thread together!

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Monday, August 17th 2009, 8:44pm

They tried to make me go to rehab, I said "No, no, no".

Most of us are aware that online gaming is highly addictive. Don't need news articles and isolated acts of insanity as proof. Insane people do insane things, the game is usually a symptom though, not a root cause. Gaming doesn't cause someone to become a sociopath.

The GO GET LAID thing is old and tired. You could argue that leads to many dangers which pale in comparison to heavy gaming.

You made some good points, not going to comment on everything and I'm glad you feel you have your life on track.

Now I gotta go chase down my 2 kids, a remnant of the days when I used to "hang out with pretty girls".

P.S. "Having a life" can't be defined by sources outside of yourself. If you are happy staying at home and gaming then game away.

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Monday, August 17th 2009, 9:19pm

People come from different walks of life & are at various stages in their years of living. I understand you and I respect your opinion. I would like to see more constructive comments as well.

Go get laid is just a funny remark, although I do believe both young men & women can have a better chance of finding someone they like not in a virtual world but in real life. But hey, aren't you happy with your marriage? You should feel lucky because you've got two children already ^.^

We don't just feel having it back on track, we can actually experience it in every valuable day of our lives.

Last but not least, I want to say I am incapable of forcing you to stop MMORPG. It's just a collection of articles, social surveys, psychology research and other stuff...I read them then share with others. But I DO think we can take this matter a little more seriously by now..especially when RoM is still in its early development ~ first expansion is coming soon - by then it'd be even worse :*(

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Tuesday, August 18th 2009, 11:33am

What about getting semi-laid and gaming at the same time? Is that feasible and worthwhile?

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Tuesday, August 18th 2009, 3:35pm

"Getting laid" angel and the devils

http://www.videojug.com/interview/celebr…ed-during-sex-2

In many instances in human history, people have died because of sex. A middle-aged Attila the Hun died because of a night of "rough sex".

In Greek mythology, thousands of people got killed because of conflict between two love rivals from opposing states. Much "phat lewts" had been found, especially by the ones who killed them. But Troy ain't got no "antivirus" or "firewall" to save themselves from the Trojan Horse!

In some parts of Africa, men would rape babies as a "cure" for AIDS. Now we might think that this is an extreme case in which some men failed to control themselves. Well, in "less extreme" situations, credible researches have shown that 40% of rape victims in South Africa in the year 2000 were under the age of 18.

Surveys all led to conclusions that the majority of players aged from 10~40 really needed to stop f**king around in life. ONLY a minority was able to control themselves. It was revealed that this minority never really played the dating game in the first place as most of them are pre-pubescent.

Having said that, I would like to show you a small guide on how to (read below; it's obvious ^)

http://www.wikihow.com/Stay-a-Virgin

Basically, it's all about

> Spending 16 hours a day, 7 days a week on RoM

> I hope this article won't be deleted. It is totally up to the gamer to decide whether to get laid or not. The company's user agreement says that it is not responsible for any damage to players. We are NOT saying that RoM management is responsible. We are just trying to convey a simple idea that might help some quitting players.

> For the rest who ARE getting laid: "OK this is NO big deal. Just chill out man. ;)" > well, TAKE A LOOK AGAIN AT OURSELVES. When we are at age 30 - 35 - 40 - 45 - 50+, making love many hours everyday with that "adorable" excuse named SUMMER VACATION or the likes, feeling discomforted or even angry at your parents or in-laws upstairs, neglect daily duties of a son/daughter/husband/wife, earn less money due to serious fatigue from extreme kinky stuff, physical deterioration like we worked out too much, talk to other people like sex gurus (even thou we know NOTHING about safe sex, anal beads, S&M, advanced role-playing..e.t.c.. ) and BEST of all: deprive ourselves of chances to HIT LVL50 - hang out with Zarth and Icarii...we will understand how this "getting laid" thing is "killing me softly with physical exertion".

> Of course, these things vary from person to person. We all EXTREMELY HATE to hear total strangers making wild presumptions about others.

> In addition, Runes of Magic is a conventional well-programmed masterpiece among many others. Congratulation for making this nice game.
As for now, BON VOYAGE all the ladies in the whole wide world!!! ^.~"

Thanks to my ex-girlfriends, syphilis and my other inner good side, I am NOW GRINDING DAILIES again!!!

Sry if Mingoliath is offended. :p

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Tuesday, August 18th 2009, 6:17pm

oh my god... the last guide was more interesting than the first lolz!!! i wont get laid anymore!!!! id rather go to rusia and kill gamers lolz or shot my mother if she take out my RoM account or like in Youtube stick the remote controller up my behind because she took the boy's wow account LOLZ game addiction FTW!

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Wednesday, August 19th 2009, 2:09am

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Greatest comment of all time!!! and NO, I will never be offended but thanks for saying "sorry". ^^

That word should go to other people who are planning to really stop playing once and for all. Some people are trying to quit but what you did was to encourage them to play more!

Btw, Zarth quit and left a post right after this article. I don't think he even cared about reading our thread, thou!

Remember that getting laid is just a funny remark. Beside gaming and having ***, don't we have better things to do in our lives? Anyhow, the most important thing is to enjoy what you do - but resisting against bad temptation proves you are a winner!

RoM - MMORPG quitters FOR THE WIN FOR THE WIN!!! :p

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Tuesday, October 6th 2009, 3:25pm

Very nice article. Agree with you there. Perhaps you've looked at my article? It's on my siggy below.

It is sad to see people deteriorate due to a game. It's an escapist's dream - rid yourself of reality and delve into fantasy forever. Ironically, reality is all around everyone, and an escapist fails that realization.

I'm starting to see the symptoms in me... does it mean I should quit while I'm ahead? Perhaps.

Do I play everyday? No.

The days I do play, do I sit for more than 5 hours? Very rare if that should happen - I'm usually cramming for tests or in school/working/volunteering.

Do I get very far in the game every day I play? If I get to level just one class up one level, it's an accomplishment for me (I'm in the higher 20's on both classes.) Call me slow, but I like to savor the game's mechanics and aesthetics.

Do I spend RL money on the game? I spent once on diamonds on sale last week (bouns diamonds), and bought 2 mounts for 2 toons. I'm kicking myself now because a week later (= this week), all mounts are on sale, 1/2 off. I consider more than $25 on an MMORPG wasteful. I'm not buying any more, even at end-game (if I ever get there; I barely have the attention span to do so - never got to end-game in any other MMORPGs.)

Do I consider myself an addict? Maybe (<= which is the truth; a true addict would deny their addiction; I would have said "No" but then most of you won't believe those who actually are not addicted and say "No" to the question.) Ok, I'll say no, I'm not an addict. Just a person who wants to escape from reality for a few hours. That's it. There's too much good TV out there not to miss. :D

Do I have to stop? I'll deal with my life when better things come for me. At this point in time, I'm comfortable enough to play a few hours a week.

-ShadowRaider

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Tuesday, October 6th 2009, 7:59pm

You know, Pay to Play games are cheaper than therapy. And dying of exhaustion after 54 hours of gaming? No one can help you if you don't drink water. The Halo gamer incident? That's more the fault of having an easily accessible handgun in the household without proper safety measures. As for the other so called advice, some of us work and don't have summer vacations anymore, others are single and live alone. Not to mention many are introverts even without games, and are typically not the type to hang out with "pretty girls & boys".

Gaming addiction isn't even fully understood yet, so please stop assuming the worst due to a very very very few bad apples. There are far more deaths and crime stemming from alcohol, drugs, gangs, abuse, religion, and old fashioned greed. Even deaths from bees and sharks outnumber so called game-related violence deaths. Please take your overly self righteous preaching to REAL issues.
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Wednesday, October 7th 2009, 12:12am

You didn't hear the story in South America about some kid who forgot to repay another dude on Knight Online, so that guy went to his house, chopped into bloody pieces and stuffed his remains in the attic? All for a sword...

Anyways, don't need any moralist moron telling me how much is too much. Go DIAF and preach somewhere else. You're just as bad as Jehovah Witness knocking on the front door telling me I'm gonna go to hell for not joining.

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Wednesday, October 7th 2009, 12:28am

And in USA, a kid attempted to stick a remote control up his bum 'cause his mom took WoW away from him.

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Wednesday, October 7th 2009, 6:53pm

hehehehe Jehovah's Witness are fun just answer the door in nothing but a pair of spandex bike shorts and a pentacle and they will leave you alone forever more ...I have done this so I know it works :D
PvP is like arguing on the net even if you win you still ride the short bus

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Wednesday, October 7th 2009, 7:18pm

Thank God you have saved me from myself. I was a useless fool addicted to playing video games online. Now I am just a useless fool addicted to looking for stupid posts on a video game forum to reply to.

:eek:

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Sunday, October 11th 2009, 11:05am

Quoted from "LordArrgh;171705"

hehehehe Jehovah's Witness are fun just answer the door in nothing but a pair of spandex bike shorts and a pentacle and they will leave you alone forever more ...I have done this so I know it works :D

Did you also have an empty jewel encrusted gold goblet in one hand and a ceremonial dagger in the other, and greet them with the question "Are both of you guys still virgins?"

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Tuesday, October 20th 2009, 3:09am

no that would have been funny though
PvP is like arguing on the net even if you win you still ride the short bus

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Thursday, October 22nd 2009, 9:17pm

Quoted from "ShadowRaider;170619"

Very nice article. Agree with you there. Perhaps you've looked at my article? It's on my siggy below.

It is sad to see people deteriorate due to a game. It's an escapist's dream - rid yourself of reality and delve into fantasy forever. Ironically, reality is all around everyone, and an escapist fails that realization.

I'm starting to see the symptoms in me... does it mean I should quit while I'm ahead? Perhaps.

Do I have to stop? I'll deal with my life when better things come for me. At this point in time, I'm comfortable enough to play a few hours a week.

-ShadowRaider


It's been a long time since I last wandered around gaming forums. I think I can understand you and I really enjoy the post in your sig. I believe you are in the borderline of addiction and normal gaming.
I think for some people, fighting against gaming addiction is a challenging long process. Guess what, I posted all those good stuff but then took the wrong step and fell into the trap of another online game. But it's over! I'm going to quit & delete the game right now after posting this. :mad:
Have you ever heard of this "Get out while we still can!"? It's my reply to your post.

Good luck Raider!

PS: Those who have comment on my post: if you've really thoroughly read all of my posts since the beginning, you'd understand what I really meant.

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Thursday, October 22nd 2009, 9:30pm

I play RoM because I cant BLACKLIST people in Real life.

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Thursday, October 22nd 2009, 9:35pm

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You know, Pay to Play games are cheaper than therapy. And dying of exhaustion after 54 hours of gaming? No one can help you if you don't drink water. The Halo gamer incident? That's more the fault of having an easily accessible handgun in the household without proper safety measures. As for the other so called advice, some of us work and don't have summer vacations anymore, others are single and live alone. Not to mention many are introverts even without games, and are typically not the type to hang out with "pretty girls & boys".

Gaming addiction isn't even fully understood yet, so please stop assuming the worst due to a very very very few bad apples. There are far more deaths and crime stemming from alcohol, drugs, gangs, abuse, religion, and old fashioned greed. Even deaths from bees and sharks outnumber so called game-related violence deaths. Please take your overly self righteous preaching to REAL issues.


Strange?! Who assumed the worst due to a very few bad apples? What "overly self righteous preaching to real issues" are you talking about? This isn't preaching and it's also not an attempt to aimlessly argue on the internet. I posted this because I simply want to share with others the newspaper articles and my own painful experience as well. I want to hear what you guys think about this problem & give constructive comments. Don't blame anyone because no one is blaming you, okay?! :)
Now the key to your question is: I am afraid you are denying your addiction to the game...check your facts...gaming addiction has already been classified as a psychological addiction which isn't that much of a difference compared to drugs or wine. But even if gaming addiction isn't fully understood yet, when we become more matured & have more goals in life > it IS US - we are the ones who know the answer dam well. We know we can't resist pulling the chair and seat in front of our computers for hours instead of hanging out with our family or whatever. We know that it's gonna be bad for our health but we just can't/don't want to get over it. We know there is a better world out there but we'd rather be stucked in this unreal virtual 3D world. So Leeyann, please be honest with yourself first then criticize other people later =.= :)

Also, didn't I type this in my original post? "Of course, this varies from person to person and we EXTREMELY HATE total strangers making wild assumptions about others" Read more carefully, please.

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Thursday, October 22nd 2009, 9:48pm

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You didn't hear the story in South America about some kid who forgot to repay another dude on Knight Online, so that guy went to his house, chopped into bloody pieces and stuffed his remains in the attic? All for a sword...

Anyways, don't need any moralist moron telling me how much is too much. Go DIAF and preach somewhere else. You're just as bad as Jehovah Witness knocking on the front door telling me I'm gonna go to hell for not joining.


Who said you are going to hell if you're not agreeing with my opinion? I am just sharing with you my ideas and some articles on newspaper. Don't use the word preach because it reminds me of a few preachers who are too religious to get their facts straight. The South America story is quite "entertaining" thou. Ty for bringing it up :rolleyes:

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Sunday, October 25th 2009, 9:59am

Quoted from "Mingoliath;147658"

Beside gaming and having ***, don't we have better things to do in our lives?

Wait... what???