how do i delete character data if i don't see the folder in rom
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There is a RoM data folder where your character information is stored. If you're using Windows Vista, Windows 7, or Windows 8, it can be found in C:\Users\{account name}\My Documents, and is named "Runes of Magic". Inside that folder are the folders for your characters, along with four other files.
You can delete the folder(s) for the affected character(s), then log back in. Keep in mind that individual UI settings and global settings for some addons will also be deleted and will have to be rebuilt.
I will not guarantee or otherwise promise that deleting these character folders will fix your issue with daily quests not resetting. The best course of action is to take the advice other players have given and do your daily quests before 0000 hours EST.